Boundary map cards on a warm tabletop
    Private boundary map

    Is it a dealbreaker, or something to discuss?

    Review six short situations and sort concerns into safety, firm boundaries, clarification, practical fit, preferences, or uncertainty.

    No score, no verdict
    The result is a reflection aid, not a compatibility decision. Safety, coercion, blackmail, child-boundary violations, and money or OTP demands are not treated as ordinary compromises.